This is one of the few blog posts where I'm actually going to write about my life, but if I don't vent this, I'm going to explode.

Guys Nights generally occur when guys need to get away from girlfriends/work/school, etc, and just relax and do some male bonding. That's fine. But when a group of friends consists mostly of guys, and the few girls like to do the same things as the guys anyway, where does that leave the girls?

Shit out of luck.

Add to this equation the fact that Guys Night apparently happens several times a week, (Guy Shopping Night, Guy Game Night, Guys Go to Fredericton Weekend), and what do you get? A girl who finds that, for the most part, she can't hang out with her friends when they're doing fun things, because, due to her gender, they don't want her there.

Quite frankly, I'm tired of it, and I'm tired of the excuses that come with it ("Oh, well, the other girls would get jealous..."). Either man up and deal with the other girls, or man up and tell me the truth - that you don't want me there. Don't pussy out with, "Oh, we want you there, but [insert person/group/gender] would be jealous." That's just bullshit, and I'm sick and tired of it.

In any case, this girl is more than ready to find some friends to whom her gender isn't such a big issue.